Pamela Stephenson Connolly

I am a very sexual man, but my wife has so much to juggle that we aren’t as intimate as we once were. How can I reignite the spark?

She is far more matter-of-fact and open about sex than I am. I know this is my problem, not hers, but I am now troubled by intrusive thoughts

I love her, but often feel pressured into having sex the minute I walk in the door

At 19 I would like to experience sex. But the reality makes me extremely anxious – and what if it is all a partner wants from me?

It is only recently that she has opened up about her relationship with a colleague. How can I suggest we take this further as an erotic fantasy?

I love my partner deeply but I miss sexual intimacy. Should I explore my bisexuality, or accept that my sex life is over?

We haven’t had sex for three years, during which time an affair reignited my love of kink. Now my partner wants to reconnect but I find myself recoiling from her

I have an active and enjoyable sex life with my husband, but I can’t reach orgasm without a great deal of drama. Should I try to be more restrained?